Workplace Flattery: Perspective-Taking × 'Salesperson' Mindset × Optimal Distance—Mastering the Bosses You Can't Handle or Understand!

Workplace Flattery: Perspective-Taking × 'Salesperson' Mindset × Optimal Distance—Mastering the Bosses You Can't Handle or Understand!

by Kang Yusheng

There are hundreds of types of supervisors in the workplace, and you have to follow them all.

Think flattery always works? It might just make you seem fake and annoying!

Should you just 'be yourself' then? I suggest you hide your brilliance and don't be mischievous!

Supervisors are harder to handle than a moody partner, making workplace life a struggle...

As long as you master essential workplace social skills, your relationship with superiors will feel divinely inspired!

▎Do different bosses require different tactics?

New Supervisors: Is the newly appointed boss less senior than you? Is the adjustment period awkward?

Bad-tempered Supervisors: Do you get scolded for the smallest mistake?

Picky Supervisors: Does the boss always make things difficult, nitpicking even when the work is done perfectly?

Male/Female Supervisors: Do male and female subordinates face different challenges with different bosses?

Foreign Supervisors: Are there cultural differences or work habits that are hard to adapt to?

Dealing with various workplace bosses requires attention to specific 'fine details.' All I can say is: life is truly hard!

▎If a supervisor makes a mistake, should you point it out?

At work, it is inevitable that bosses make mistakes. What should a subordinate do?

Should you insist that wrong is wrong and boldly correct them?

Or should you turn a blind eye to save the boss's face?

You should master the following principles:

║ Absolute 'Respect': No one is perfect; bosses are human, and making mistakes is natural!

║ Proactive Communication: Master the art of speaking; proper communication leads to mutual agreement!

║ Strong Justification: You must have sufficient evidence to prove you are right, otherwise, you're asking for trouble.

║ Reasonable Persistence: If your position is correct, stick to your opinion without being easily swayed by the boss!

▎What makes a 'good subordinate'?

║ Accurately understand the boss's intentions; never assume you know, only to end up with a huge misunderstanding!

║ Although you should perform well, showing off too much might accidentally offend those above you!

║ As the saying goes, 'Speak no evil, see no evil, hear no evil'; the boss's private affairs are none of your business!

║ Speak beautifully—not just bluntly; you must be clear yet tactful and smooth!

[Book Features]:

This book provides a detailed analysis of various types of supervisors you may encounter and the conflicts that may arise. It explains the mindset and qualities needed for workplace navigation, helping readers who struggle with superior-subordinate relationships master the principles of getting along. No more worrying about being scolded, having strained relationships, or getting fired for no reason... As long as you maintain a good relationship with your supervisor, you will thrive in the workplace!

Publisher
清文華泉
Published
2023-02-01
ISBN
9786267165225

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