Don't Scold Your Child for Poor Grades: Good Habits × Good Environment × Good Traits—Helping Your Child Find the Best Way to Learn

Whose fault is it when grades are poor?

Cram schools, tutors, parents studying with them...

Even with so much time and money spent, are your child's grades still tragic?

Poor grades ≠ Low IQ

If you want your child to improve their grades, it's not just the child who needs to work hard.

Environment, habits, methods, and the child's traits—parents must pay attention to all of them!

▎Stop blaming poor grades on IQ

Do you want your child to be better, but inadvertently end up hurting them?

Example 1: Laissez-faire parenting to avoid pressure, letting things take their course.

→ Without guidance, children don't know where to go, and grades naturally slip away.

Example 2: High-pressure teaching with excessive demands and strict control.

→ Extreme educational methods often lead to children hating and resisting school.

◎ Establish a correct view of scores:

Scores are important, but they should be used to evaluate the effectiveness of the child's learning.

◎ Possess a correct view of success and failure:

Insulting or hitting a child for bad grades only brings negative impacts. Accompanying them to analyze the causes of failure and find ways to improve leads to great progress!

◎ Set correct reward standards:

Promising money for certain scores might work, but it can easily lead children to chase superficial marks and misunderstand the meaning of studying.

▎Using the wrong methods will only cause a backlash

When parents force children to do things that even the parents aren't interested in, children won't believe it's for their own good.

Force-feeding someone who is full will only make them vomit; forcing someone to drink more water when they've had enough will make them choke.

Ignite the child's passion for learning, discuss future development together, provide positive guidance, strengthen self-confidence, and motivate continuous progress.

It's not just about what parents think is good; the child's thoughts and interests are also important!

▎A quiet environment helps children focus on learning

"My child is very well-behaved; they stay in their room to study right after school and don't rest from morning to night. Why aren't their grades improving?"

—Perhaps you should carefully check both the inside and outside of the room!

Family members laughing and watching TV outside? NG!

Parents going in every few minutes to ask if they want snacks? NG!

Loud temple fairs or election rallies outside making it impossible to stay calm? NG!

▎Remember it this way to improve learning efficiency

Is your child always forgetful, forgetting what was just taught the very next day?

Don't be anxious! They just don't understand the laws of memory!

◎ Strike while the iron is hot:

Strengthen the building, don't just try to save a collapsed one. To prevent forgetting, review quickly while the memory is fresh.

◎ Before bed is the golden time for memory:

Although the body is asleep, the brain doesn't stop working. It categorizes, organizes, codes, and stores the information just received.

◎ Understand before memorizing:

It is difficult to remember disconnected, meaningless letters or numbers, but easy to remember coherent content like fairy tales or classical poetry. Therefore, understand the content before trying to memorize it.

◎ Do not memorize too much at once:

Too much information can fatigue the brain and reduce memory efficiency.

Book Features:

If your child's grades never improve, is there something wrong with the child? Parents concerned about education shouldn't panic. Although IQ plays a part, it is not everything. Follow this book to examine all aspects, including the parents themselves, teachers, child psychology, and the environment. Additionally, this book provides specific methods for improving grades. We hope that after reading this book, parents will feel at ease and children will enjoy learning.